Are you intimidated by therapy?
Are you more interested in exploring possibilities instead of fixing problems?
Can you feel something underneath the surface of your life, but you can't quite grab it?
“It’s the unconscious that’s really in charge.” (Behavioral and Brain Sciences Vol. 39, 2016)
Unconscious forces direct 95% of our habits and patterns, automatic body function, creativity, emotions, personality, beliefs and values, cognitive biases, and long-term memory. (Emma Jung, www.NewScientist.com, July 25, 2018)
If you're looking for a reflection partner - one with a PhD in depth psychology and her own story of midlife transformation - click here to request more information about my one-on-one online services.
Individual Reflection Sessions
Girl Talk - With an Expert
How it Works
Women gather – to plot how to make the world a better place, to vent about the kids and husband, to share secret desires, to get a respite from conventional life.
Are you looking for something new to do with your girlfriends? Do you have a feeling there’s something more lurking beneath the surface of your life, but you can’t quite grab hold of it?
Most of who we are is a mystery, and science backs that up. You really cannot be sure of the hidden agenda behind what you do, how you think, and why you’re attracted to or repelled by certain people.
Just as you need to learn Spanish to communicate with Spanish speakers, learning the language of the unconscious is required to interpret the messages your unconscious sends.
Book a date and pay $25 deposit – Your 90-minute session can be hosted on an evening after work at your home or other private setting. Or maybe in the back of a coffee shop on a weekend. Geography is no longer an obstacle with zoom. Email me at firstname.lastname@example.org.
Send invites and RSVP’s – I’ll help you with outreach and user-friendly language as you gather RSVP’s. 5-10 people make for a meaningful and safe experience.
Pick a topic – Choose right away or ask your invitees. Depth, expertise, and humor can be added to any topic. Dreams, sex, spirituality, relationships, personality type, binge TV watching are all things we tend to talk about.
Finalize agenda and pay $225 balance – 48 hours before the event, I’ll put final touches on the agenda and collect the remainder of the fee. You might choose to sponsor the event partially or fully or divide the fee amongst attendees.
Enjoy Girl Talk with an Expert – Agenda: (1) Introductions to personalize the experience; (2) Weaving my own experiences through basic concepts encourages participation; (3) Discussion, self-reflection, journaling/artwork, and laughter are a fun way to gain new insights about yourself.
Sex & God Meet: A Framework to Explore Reconciling Your Sexuality & Spirituality
Are you feeling . . .
Awkward and self-conscious about dating and sex, after divorce or the end of a relationship?
Ashamed about past sexual experiences?
Confused about how to be sexually authentic while staying true to a spiritual framework?
Held back from experiencing deep connection with a romantic partner?
It's NOT your fault . . .
There's a lot of focus on quantity, technique, and toys - not much depth. Your religious views may feel at odds with your natural and healthy desire for sex and pleasure. Cultural messages become internalized as unconscious self-judgment.
I felt all of this . . .
Researching the connection between sexuality and spirituality was the last topic I would have imagined pursuing in my journey to secure a PhD. The task of exploring how the relationship between sexuality and spirituality seemed to have been the driving force of my midlife journey felt thrust upon me by my unconscious.
It was not until I possessed a framework for exploring my experiences that wounds I didn't even know I had began to heal. Out of my personal experience and analysis emerged a framework that not only helped me reconcile my sexuality and spirituality, but I experienced the depth of connection and height of ecstasy that I didn't know was possible - not only with a partner but with the Divine (or God or universe). I now relate to my sexual energy as a life force that asks something of me, not just as a way to achieve some temporary release.
This Course May be for You if Want to . . .
Explore how your experiences of God and sex may be intertwined in a way that is preventing you from feeling deep connection within and with a romantic partner.
Learn some helpful concepts, basic framework for your exploration, and specific tasks to try to support your exploration.
Feel more confidence and less shame about your sexual desires and how your body is a vehicle through which to experience the Divine (or God).
Embrace pleasure as sacred.
In the Meantime . . .
Click here to shoot me an email letting me know why you're interested. I may have some ideas on resources that can get you started on your exploration. Click here to subscribe to my newsletter to get updates on helpful blog posts and the launching of this course.
Note: This course is not therapy, rather a framework that emerged during the parallel journeys of midlife and securing my masters and PhD in depth psychology.
Private Facebook Community
Are you seeking a safe and private place to go to share awkward experiences, get support from other women, and learn about concepts and tools to help you explore your sexuality, spirituality or the relationship between the two?
You're NOT alone, whatever crazy thoughts, fantasies or dreams you're having. Many women are waking up to the TRUTH that there is something deeper to their natural sexual desire, something that patriarchy has kept from them because it is so powerful, and something that prevented the kind of deep connection with the Divine and others that is their rightful inheritance.
Join my Women, Sex & God private Facebook page. It's FREE until October 1st. You'll be able to send me questions, and twice per month I'll share my reflections via video and encourage our community to tap into its collective wisdom.