How Are You Feeling About Your Life These Days?

I'm passionate about inspiring people to find deeper meaning in ordinary life events by learning the language of the unconscious. Science affirms that unconscious forces direct up to 95% of who we are - the decisions we make, emotional responses, personality quirks, and even to whom we're attracted. And that's just looking at the personal unconscious. 


So, if you're stuck, it's not your mind that holds the solution, rather the key is decoding messages communicated through your unconscious by an inner authority, what you could call Soul, Self, God, or creative intelligence. Once the messages are decoded, the new insight, attitude, or behavior is the doorway that leads to the other side.  

Depth Psychology Coach (100% virtual). I hold a masters/PhD in depth psychology, which means I have an expertise in the study of the unconscious. Like my clients, maybe you are: (1) Trapped in a situation, career, or relationship that you can't figure out how to accept or leave; or (2) Have you already had a crisis or an unraveling, and you need a framework for reconstructing your new self,  or (3) After ending a long-term relationship, did you jump into a new one and now see red flags you couldn’t see before, or (4) After divorce, you did the better thing by focusing on yourself first, and now you’re feeling insecure about dating, love, your body, and sex, or (5) You’re just obsessed with depth and curious about the deeper meaning of everything. 


Author. My new book, Your Soul is Talking. Are You Listening? 5 Steps to Uncovering Your Hidden Purpose, combines my Jungian—based coaching framework for self-reflection with personal stories of midlife unraveling and healing wounds related to sexuality and spirituality.


Blogger, Podcaster, Instagrammer. . . All ways I encourage others to explore the deeper meaning of ordinary life experiences through stories, conversation, and education.  

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Dose of Depth


I invite you to be curious about your unique experience of being human.


In this podcast, we’ll explore the deeper meaning of ordinary life experiences through conversation, stories, and education.


You might have a serious ah-ha moment, or you might be amused by the movie your life seems to be imitating, or you might just be entertained by one of my awkward stories. I’m hoping you’ll become more aware of those moments when a deeper part of you is prompting you to see things differently and maybe even go a new direction.

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Read My Book 

You'll love my book if you're into Soul and psychology stuff, something has fallen apart in your life, you're craving more meaning and purpose, struggling with relationships and dating again, addiction, anxiety, job loss.

The Soul speaks through dreams, symbols, meaningful coincidences, relationships, films, and even anxiety and illness. Let me teach you the language of the unconscious to find your Soul's hidden purpose.

Click here to check out my book and all the heartfelt reviews on Amazon

“This book is a great supplement to therapy for those

in midlife transition looking for purpose in their lives. Individuals who are learning to listen to their

inner voice will find Deborah Lukovich’s book

both instructive and relatable.”


—Stacey Shelby, PhD., Registered Clinical Counselor,

and author of Tracking the Wild Woman Archetype:

A Guide to Becoming a Whole In-Divisible Woman

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