Coming in September 2025!
A story about surrendering to the unknown, risking judgment to seek a deeper truth, and discovering that when sexuality meets the sacred, a wild, creative force is unleashed.
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Deborah’s life as a mother, professional, and wife felt so perfect that the twinge of discontent confused her. Ten years later, her marriage and business unraveled, and her eleven-year-old son said he didn’t want to live. Getting divorced only unleashed demons that her twenty-four-year marriage had protected her from.
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The younger men appeared as unexpected teachers, revitalizing her sensuality, and then a soul-stirring romance forced a reckoning deep inside her. Through the fire of erotic intensity and spiritual revelation, she shed layers of armor, embraced the sacredness of her desire, and stepped boldly into the fullness of her true self. ​​
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Praise For When Sex Meets God
“A raw and honest exploration of themes many find too taboo to touch… As a man, the book served as a profound primer on The Feminine, revealing insights and emotions that were intriguing and thought-provoking.”
Ryan Bennett, Coaching Client
“What truly stands out is Deborah’s refreshing approach to dating in her 50s, free from societal expectations.”
Shaun Miller, PhD, Philosopher
and author of “Sexual Autonomy and Sexual Consent”
in the Palgrave Handbook of Sexual Ethics
“Deborah lets us feel that sexuality is a creative energy that permeates life and connects one to the deepest mystery of our existence.”
Vladislav (Vlado) Šolc, Diplomate Jungian Analyst
Author of Dark Religion: Fundamentalism from
the Perspective of Jungian Psychology
“Dr. Deborah uncovers the profound interconnection between sexuality and spirituality.”
Dr. Stacey Shelby,
Author of Tracking the Wild Woman Archetype
and Love and Soul-Making
The Discovery of You
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Do you really know yourself? I want to get you excited about exploring the most important final frontier–your inner world. Like an iceberg, most of you is unknown, even to you.
I skipped through my twenties and thirties so sure of myself. At forty-seven, it was like a trick had been played on me. Standing at the podium to receive an award, I ended my remarks with, “I make a difference walking around being me.” Tears came when I felt a deep knowing that it was true, and then I surrendered to the kind of sobbing you don’t want to have in front of a hundred people.
In that Soul-making moment, I realized that beneath my commitment to making the world a better place was an unconscious drive for validation. This truth was harder to swallow, and it lay the groundwork for what came next–midlife unraveling.
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Has something in your life fallen apart? Do you crave more meaning and purpose? Maybe you're struggling with divorce, addiction, job loss, or depression. If you could think your way out of it, you probably would have overcome the challenges that remain.
Science affirms that unconscious forces direct up to ninety percent of our patterns of thinking and behaving, our emotional reactions, and even who we're attracted to.
Let me teach you the language of the unconscious so you can hear and decode its messages and unleash potentials you didn't even know existed.