Gratitude, Appreciation & The Law of Diminishing Returns
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Deborah Lukovich
- Jun 27, 2021
- 13 min
When is Sexual Attraction NOT About Sex?
Have you ever become sexually aroused by contemplating a new idea, or by participating in an intellectually stimulating conversation? Or...
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Deborah Lukovich
- Jun 19, 2021
- 6 min
The End is Coming . . . of Patriarchy!
Something is beginning to take shape – within me and outside of me. I began to feel the change happening deep inside, during my midlife...
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Deborah Lukovich
- May 4, 2021
- 10 min
My Children Pushed Me Out of the Nest
A couple weeks ago, I had a mini freak out. It was coming up on a year since I had left my old self and life behind. The unraveling of my...
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Deborah Lukovich
- Apr 4, 2021
- 8 min
How to Make Menopause Your Best Friend - For Men Too!
Do you even know what menopause means? I had to go to three different websites to get clear on how the medical community defines the...
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Deborah Lukovich
- Mar 18, 2021
- 9 min
A One Night Stand with Shame
Before I get to the topic of this post, I want to reflect out loud about what I’m going for with my blog. I think I’m finding my voice –...
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Deborah Lukovich
- Mar 2, 2021
- 6 min
It Ain't Easy Being a Man Either
Beneath the Surface “I need some Deb time,” the text said. It was my friend Alex. “LOL. It’s a date,” I texted back. We had been having...
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Deborah Lukovich
- Jan 24, 2021
- 7 min
I Didn’t Become a Romantic Until I Got Divorced: Midlife Reflections
Did you come of age in the 1980s? What kinds of messages did you internalize having to do with gender roles? Have you thought about how...
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Deborah Lukovich
- Jan 2, 2021
- 7 min
Vacuum Cleaners and Ex-Husbands: Life Lessons
Finding meaning in and reflecting about the mundane equals breathing for me. You can imagine that I might go a little crazy during the...
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Deborah Lukovich
- Dec 14, 2020
- 7 min
My Sneaky Psyche: The Black Panther and My Spiritual Path
Oh no! It’s been so long since I’ve written. I've been busy completing the second draft of my memoir, which is due December 22nd. Yikes!...
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Deborah Lukovich
- Oct 20, 2020
- 8 min
The Hidden Meaning of the Film Aquaman
What? This is the Book of Revelation! I whispered during one of the six viewings of the film Aquaman. A Little Context During this phase...
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Deborah Lukovich
- Oct 3, 2020
- 6 min
Unleashed
Copyright © 2020, Deborah Lukovich, PhD A short story about an experience of death and rebirth. You can listen to me read this story on...
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Deborah Lukovich
- Sep 20, 2020
- 6 min
My Conversation With a Hummingbird
Are there signs that you’ve ignored, or even dismissed, because they would disrupt your safe but maybe not quite fulfilling life? Have...
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Deborah Lukovich
- Sep 7, 2020
- 2 min
Why Do You Read What You Read?
I’ve always been a voracious reader, preferring hard cover books over paperback or digital, and marking them up with my own cryptic code....
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Deborah Lukovich
- Sep 2, 2020
- 1 min
It's Here! Get a FREE Copy of my 1st Short Story
Provocative and intensely open. The story exposes a window into a woman's mind and takes you through the emotions and thoughts of someone...
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Deborah Lukovich
- Aug 28, 2020
- 2 min
I'm So Excited! My First Short Story - Coming September 2nd
Midlife unraveling, research on women, sex, and God, and moving to a beach town forced a reunion with a buried part of myself. I am...
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Deborah Lukovich
- Aug 9, 2020
- 1 min
My FIRST Poetry Shares!
PLEASE TELL ME WHAT YOU THINK AND SHARE WITH OTHERS IF YOU LIKE THEM! Delphinium Proud Delphinium Tall, bold, purple blooms, reaching...
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Deborah Lukovich
- Aug 9, 2020
- 5 min
A Single Moment
Copyright © 2020, Deborah Lukovich, PhD My FIRST Creative Writing SHARE! PLEASE TELL ME WHAT YOU THINK AND SHARE WITH OTHERS IF YOU LIKE...
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Deborah Lukovich
- Aug 9, 2020
- 5 min
Are You an Antiracist?
I LOVE THIS BOOK! How to be an Antiracist by Ibram X. Kendi https://www.ibramxkendi.com https://www.ibramxkendi.com/books-1 New York...
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Deborah Lukovich
- Jul 25, 2020
- 2 min
My New Adventure – Take Two!
From fundraising and community engagement to what might feel like a disparate range of topics is quite a change, AND I’m so grateful for...
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Deborah Lukovich
- Jul 25, 2020
- 7 min
What Does it Mean When a Penis Shows Up in Your Dream?
The Deeper Meaning of Sexual Images Wait . . . don’t go just because I said PENIS. Come on. Don’t tell me you haven’t had that dream...
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Deborah Lukovich
- May 1, 2020
- 11 min
The Evolving Relationship Between a Mom and Her Children
Once again, I feel grateful to have the opportunity to be interviewed by another inspiring woman. Faiza Sheikh-Mian, LCSW, LCADC, CYT, is...
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